In love with Narcissists?
Many of us don't know but we are narcissists (check: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissism). The term "narcissism" (inflated level of self-admiration) adds to our vocabulary at some stage in life and we start thinking on how to control our narcissism. The sooner, the better! And then we also learn that a bit of "healthy self-love" is something different which might be in fact necessary for us.